When I think of high maintenance, I envision a woman. Recently, my perception of high maintenance turned to men.
Some men emit signals requiring women to go beyond their real identity just to be with them.
This message all too often is not verbalized to the woman.
The meta message thumps…“To be with me; you must…”
Analyzing this pulsating thump and how it dictates some relationships, I’ve concluded: being you instead of some fabricated humanoid is best.
Like and enjoy yourself—quirks goodness and all.
I encourage a fast to sacrifice “do this, and maybe I will give you some attention.”
Mister, there’s a High Maintenance Woman already seasoned to accommodate your high maintenance self; so step to her.
Ladies, know there are men in your league who do not need cultivating—they are awaiting you.
Let’s keep it honest and real, High Maintenance Man, we are vastly different in our desires and needs.
©2012 Nesi Writes